Friends are forever
Friends are forever
Humans have a need for survival, a need to be understood, helped, loved, and to be accompanied by interactions and friendship with another self. Due to our social nature, we do not want to live a life of loneliness. Every person male or female, young or old, rich or poor develops friendships with humans, with books, while others keep pets as friends. Nowadays people also have other ways of interaction as they make inline friends on apps like Facebook and Instagram etc. Some others keep mobile phones, iPads, and electronic gadgets as their friends and remain engaged with them.
Some friends stay longer than others and when they leave, it often becomes difficult to accept that and you wonder why they had entered your life in the first place. It’s hard because you obviously want them to stay longer. As you had begun to share a bond that you can clearly mark as being friendship. But it was not what you thought it was. If it had been friends, they would have stayed in your life forever even if they might have moved a thousand miles away from you. And then it’s only a matter of time before memories of such friends fade away though the person never existed.
However, true friends are always there. Whether near or far, they leave a mark in the album of your memories, the mark so hard to remove that it’s almost permanent. And you have absolutely no reason to want to remove it. Those memories are far too beautiful and precious. For any reason you consider these marks to be stains, then either the person was not a true friend or losing them was too painful. If it’s meant to be, things will flow naturally. But remember the most amazing thing about friendship is that it simply gives and never asks for anything in return.
Remembering this will allow you to be a better friend while saving you from the pain that comes with disappointments. Friendship is the kindest and most beautiful relationship in human life as it is out of the boundaries of blood relations, your culture, often religion, cost, maybe language, and it is understanding between two like-minded souls.
Thus, friendship is understanding, lowering the pain, sharing the happy moments, staying with when everyone leaves. Laughing and making the partner laugh, being the motivation, being the hope in someone’s life is a true friendship that must stay forever.