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Creating a strong relationship
Every one of us takes revenge if they get hurts or annoy from other and will be angry in no time. We actually never use our minds to reflect for future happenings and never look towards others whether we are on the right path or victim of egoism. We never show empathy or put ourselves in others’ shoes. Here are some tips by following these you can be a good and virtuous person to create a strong relationship with whom you want.
Keep patience
As we suggest our youngsters to keep patience and tolerance by which we never face problems and regret but ourselves we are the victims. So try to show your patience to youngsters and in front of them should have a polite attitude that they should get a lesson and believe on patience. Of course people tell you that you are a normal person and is not able for anything, therefore, you show patience but never focus them let them say anything because “Dog barks caravans go”( proverb). If you listen what others say about you then you will be busy with emotive tensions and lose your patience because every time thinking about negative things will defeat patience and hollow inside.
Avoid misunderstanding
This problem vanishes us and deprive from being in a good relationship. We never listen the words of our beloved completely what they told and start taunting them with no reason even second person is not aware about anything. Most of the time being the victim of misunderstanding we take urgent decision after without regret nothing remains. So listen carefully and confirm the gossips. This problem pushes toward a broken and a weak relation. Making a good relation we should avoid misunderstanding.
Think before you speak
We must not be our own enemy by not thinking for a decision or word that bothers us in future and will be cause of broken relations. Mostly people stuck in problems due to their tongues and by their words without thinking. If you take a decision or say something but you have to think deeply is it suitable to second person or rubbish? Specially this problem will be faced when it is last day of school or a happy ceremony because extreme happiness doesn’t let to think and words suddenly come out from the mouth but while you are talking you should be conscious and talk.
Avoid harsh words
When we will be angry or will face the compulsion of a friend then soon will use harsh words against them but never think for him/her compulsion. Most of us lose their best friends by using the harsh words without thinking for friendship and extreme emotions will tackle us to say what is in mind. Yes, it is true if you are emotional you can’t control yourself but if you have love with the second person then it is possible to tolerate everything and care your tongue from a word that harshes him/ her for ages.
Apply a smiley face
Your face is your best colleague by applying a smile on your face you can make many friends and will be in interaction with everyone around you. You start losing contact with people if your mood is off. Having a boring face is your biggest enemy which keeps you away from everyone. People need love, care and dedication not a boring mood. Think of you, when you go to a shop for buying something but shopkeeper’s mood was off when you reach at home what do you say about him? Even you don’t go for shopping onward. The same words someone tells against you and leaves your friendship by saying leave him/her because she/he doesn’t deserve anything. Have a smiley face every time which makes your face beautiful and attractive.
Avoid to be a greedy friend
Making friends is easy but don’t be a greedy friend for your greeds don’t make a friend. Actually, we make friends when we need them if we get a new friend then leave old friends by suggesting him/her that I am always with you. It is not necessary that make everyone your friend rather strengthen your friendship with your best friends and be friendly with everyone. Laugh, smile, joke, walk and go for picnic on Sundays. Friendly mood makes your personality strong and fortune you a great respect. Greed is what we just temporary comfort our inner feelings but give ourselves a bad face of a greedy person. Be careful to be a greedy friend rather be a real friend.
Habit of minding
Nowadays every one made a traditional habit of minding for suggesting, advising and showing an actual path. If someone reminds us for our mistakes, we with no thinking become emotional and consider her/him our jealous friend by comforting our mind but it is wrong for us because no one knows their mistakes themselves if they don’t realize. Thinking before realizing or to be blamed is better to get suggestions of friends. If something is told extra by a friend in which you are not wrong then ignore him/her. The obstructs we face but our purpose should not be to focus obstructs rather ignore them for betterment or to be positive. Try to get a lesson from everyone, take positive decisions, suggestions and strengthen friendship and be best friends each other.
Avoid one side friendship
This is what is common in us therefore we can not make a strong friendship because we want help from others but our turn we go a step back. Our friends take us to their home for party or other happy moments but we never think for them and bring them at our home or for walking. This is the biggest reason of weak friendship because your friend thinks that maybe you don’t consider him/her a best friend just a so-called friend. Don’t think yourself superior than your friend which causes the broken relations.