The neglected child
The neglected child
There lived a small family in a village. Everyone was happy with each other and busy with their work and life was going in a normal flow of love and affection.
The same family included a brother and three sisters. They had a great bond of love among their relationships. After time went by and they got married each with their cousins. Later on, a baby girl was born in her brother’s house (mahin ) as well as In sister’s house (sanum) . They were like twins but from time to time when they grew up so mahin was given more value and love than Sanum. She was busted up because her father was the only brother loved by all his 3 sisters including the mother of Sanum who was always pointed out and ignored.
They were the children of the same age and same place, same family but sanum was always dependent on mahin in every decision and work of her life. The reason for being dependent on mahin was her mother always telling her to follow mahin because she considered mahin more smart and capable of better decisions. The concept was fixed in her mind whatever mahin does so she has to do it.
Even though Sanum was not given the right to choose her own career and field of study. So when she failed in exams due to her lack of interest again she had to be pointed out and scolded badly. This was her secret for a long time. The environment and people she was growing with left some bad impact on her character and self. This caused her to have low self-esteem and lack of motivation and courage for her further life.
These all behaviors and speculation of her mother destroyed her psychology so deeply.
A mother is all the builders of a child and her bad parenting and ignoring can destroy a child’s life too.
Because they are those people who are the closest to a child, the trainer of a child and the need of the child but unfortunately most the mothers of our society are not well trained, not prepared to take care of a child mentally and to fulfill their psychological environment, some are not well educated to understand a child mind so for that they can’t prepare their child for the well and bright future of their life and always the child will be hopeless and mostly this is the situation of every child of our society.